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HECTIC PART OF CAMPUS LIFE.

Welcome to my weekly blog. This week, I want to talk about my experience as a university student. Am a final year student at the Technical Unive rsity of Mombasa. Back in highschool, we were all longing to join campus because of all the sweet lies we were told about university  life. "You attend class only when you feel like and nobody will ask you" I remember my highschool teacher's words, Mr. Ramah."All you need to make sure you have done is just the exam" He would add. Well. Even those exams, its not a must you sit for them. Actually nobody will look for you or force you to do the exams. But wait till graduation time, you are not in the graduation list, reason?  You have a missing 30 marks of a CAT you were supposed to sit for in first year and you even don't remember the lecturer who taught that unit. And even if you will miss the classes and go to do the exam,What will you write with no content? In first year I used to miss classes with the mentality
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TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS.

Is it bad to be in a relationship while in university? I guess No. Everybody wants to be loved and everybody wants to love back.It feels good in the beginning till the relationship turns out to be toxic. But a genuine relationship is good while in campus. But a toxic one is not only dangerous but also deadly. Kindly, don't hold on someone you don't love or one you know is not meant to be with you. If you don't love someone, let them go. SIGNS OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP 1. lying becomes a norm in your relatioonship. Cheating and lying will dissolve all the trust and it will never be the same. A relationship without trust turns healthy people into  insecure people. 2. Every relationship has its ups and downs. In a toxic relationship, nothing gets worked out because any conflict ends in an argument. 3. In a toxic relationship, they are always unmet needs. Your needs are mocked and ignored. If you attempt to talk on what you need, it ends up in a fight. Unmet needs will alwa
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LET THEM GO!

For years it has happened and for years it has been proofed that walking away is part of loving. Letting go hurts, but holding on to what was not meant to be yours hurts more. Its hard to let go someone you love, but then if it is the only option, then you should let it hurt, hurt till it can't anymore. If you love someone, set them free. When Jochebed gave birth to Moses, she knew he was a special boy. When pharaoh ordered the killing of all baby boys, she had to hide him in order to protect him. But now a time cane when he was too old to hide and something had to be done. It would have been hard to put the son she loved in a basket and let him float on water but since that was the only option, she just had to let him go.(Exodus 2:3-10). At times in your life, you are faced with two options, either holding on to someone who is meant to let Go or trusting God with then and letting them float on water. The kind of decision is hard but then you got to tryst God for providence. If
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